Having said that, I will tell you a little about my life. My husband works and brings home all of the money. He gives me a monthly allowance, and he can easily see how I'm spending it online. He pays all of our bills, and he invests all of our money. He keeps me in the loop on stuff, but to be honest, I don't pay much attention.
I'm a stay-at-home wife that takes care of the house. That means I do all of the cleaning, cooking, shopping, laundry, and yardwork. The Big Guy helps out if there's any heavy lifting that needs to be done, but for the most part the house is my responsibility. When I let things slack, believe me, I hear about it!
Now I know this is not the way most marriages work. I get it. Women like their independence, and I certainly lived that way for many years. We eventually landed where we're at now, and it works for us. My husband has a high-level job that takes a lot of his time and causes him a lot of stress. I'm behind the scenes making his life easier when he gets home.
So that's all I can tell you. Does it answer your question? LOL.